PTG · 04 · Facilitation

Benefits, Salary
& Paycheck.

Facilitation notes for Chapters 4–6. How to run the salary negotiation role-play, verify net pay, and make sure the benefits calculator was actually used.

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OverviewPart Two — Managing the Money

What Chapters 4–6 accomplish together

Chapters 4–6 are where the numbers get real. Your student will calculate what a job offer is actually worth, practice negotiating a salary, and figure out why their first paycheck is smaller than they expected. The salary negotiation role-play — which you run — is the most underrated exercise in the course. Most adults never learned to negotiate. Your student will.

Track A Timeline
Weeks 7–11 · Milestone 2 at end of Week 11
Your Biggest Role
Running the Chapter 5 salary negotiation role-play — push back like a real employer would

Chapter 4Employee Benefits

Track A · Weeks 7–8

What the Student Does
Learns health insurance, 401(k), HSA, PTO, dental, and vision. Uses a live total compensation calculator to evaluate a real or hypothetical job offer beyond just the salary.
What They Produce
A fully evaluated benefits package showing true total compensation — not just base salary.
Why It Matters
A job paying $50k with full benefits can be worth more than $60k with none. Most first-time employees don’t know how to evaluate this.

What to Watch For

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Treating salary as the only number that matters. Many students will look at the base salary and stop. Push them to run the total compensation calculator with real numbers. A $5,000 401(k) match and full health insurance can add $8,000–$12,000 of real value to an offer.

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Not understanding the 401(k) match. This is the most commonly misunderstood benefit. Make sure they can explain it in plain English: “If I contribute 4% of my salary, my employer adds another 4% for free.” If they can’t say that without reading from their notes, they don’t understand it yet.

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Skipping the HSA section. The triple tax advantage of an HSA is one of the best financial tools available to young adults — and almost no one their age knows about it. Make sure they can explain what “triple tax advantage” means before moving on.

Discussion Questions

1

Walk me through the total compensation calculator. What was the final number — and what surprised you most about how it broke down?

2

Explain the 401(k) employer match to me like I’ve never heard of it. What happens if someone ignores it?

3

What is an HSA? Who qualifies for one? Why is the “triple tax advantage” a big deal?

4

If two jobs offered the same base salary but different benefits packages, how would you decide which is the better offer?

5

What questions would you ask HR on your first day about your benefits package?

Done Well
  • Total compensation calculated with all benefit types included
  • Can explain 401(k) match and vesting in plain English
  • Understands what a deductible, copay, and OOP max are
  • Can explain HSA triple tax advantage without notes
  • Has a list of questions to ask HR about benefits
Done Casually
  • Only looked at base salary — skipped the calculator
  • Can’t explain what a 401(k) match actually means
  • HSA section left blank or skimmed
  • No questions prepared for HR
  • Doesn’t know the difference between HMO and PPO
A Note on This Chapter

This is an excellent chapter to make personal. Share your own benefits package with your student if you’re comfortable — what does your health insurance cost per month? Do you have an HSA? Are you getting the full 401(k) match? Seeing a real example from someone they trust is more powerful than any hypothetical in the chapter.

If you’ve ever made a benefits decision you regret — not enrolling in the 401(k) early, choosing the wrong health plan — share it. The goal is not to look perfect. It’s to give them information you didn’t have at their age.

Chapter 5Negotiate Your Salary

Track A · Weeks 9–10

What the Student Does
Researches market salaries using real tools (Glassdoor, BLS, LinkedIn Salary). Sets floor, target, and stretch numbers. Writes a real negotiation script and practices it with you.
What They Produce
A salary research summary, three negotiation numbers, a written script, and one completed role-play with you.
Your Role
Run the negotiation role-play. Be a realistic employer. Offer below their target. Push back on their counter. Make them earn the number.

What to Watch For

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Salary research that isn’t real research. If their market rate came from one source or a single Google search, it’s not research. They should have numbers from at least two or three sources and be able to explain the range and why their target is defensible.

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A negotiation script that apologizes. “I was hoping, if it’s not too much trouble, maybe we could consider...” is not a negotiation. Look for confidence without aggression. The script should state a number clearly and justify it with research — not hedge or apologize.

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Caving immediately when pushed back on. In the role-play, push back on their counter-offer. Say “That’s higher than we budgeted for this role.” A student who immediately accepts the lower number hasn’t learned to negotiate — they’ve just practiced capitulating. Give them the chance to hold their ground.

Discussion Questions

1

What is your floor, your target, and your stretch number — and how did you arrive at each one?

2

Read me your negotiation script. Does it sound like you? Would you believe it if you were the hiring manager?

3

If the employer says “This is the best we can do” — what do you say next?

4

What else besides salary could you negotiate? Name three things.

5

Why do most people never negotiate — and what does that cost them over a career?

Done Well
  • Salary research from at least 2–3 real sources
  • Three clear numbers with reasoning behind each
  • Script is confident, specific, and non-apologetic
  • Held their ground during the role-play pushback
  • Can name non-salary items they’d negotiate
Done Casually
  • One salary source, no range or context
  • Numbers chosen without real research behind them
  • Script hedges, apologizes, or uses “I was hoping”
  • Immediately accepted the first pushback in the role-play
  • Didn’t think about negotiating beyond base salary
How to Run the Salary Negotiation Role-Play

Play the role of a hiring manager who has just made an offer $3,000–$5,000 below their target number. Use the job from their Chapter 2 research as context. Tell them the offer. Let them respond. When they counter, push back with: “That’s above what we budgeted for this role. Is there flexibility on your end?”

The goal is not to make them feel bad. It’s to give them a low-stakes environment to practice holding a position under pressure. After the role-play, debrief: What worked? What felt uncomfortable? What would they say differently in a real conversation?

Share your own negotiation story if you have one. Did you ever negotiate — or not negotiate — a salary? What happened? What did it cost or earn you over time? A real story from you is worth ten practice scenarios.

Chapter 6Understand Your First Paycheck

Track A · Week 11

What the Student Does
Learns the difference between gross and net pay. Understands FICA, federal and state withholding, and pre-tax deductions. Runs a live paycheck calculator using their own projected salary.
What They Produce
A calculated monthly net pay figure that feeds directly into the Chapter 8 budget. This number becomes the foundation of everything that follows.
Why It Matters
Most first-time earners are shocked by their first paycheck. This chapter means your student won’t be.

What to Watch For

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Confusing gross and net pay in later chapters. This is the most common downstream error in the course. If a student builds their Chapter 8 budget using their gross salary instead of net pay, every number that follows is wrong. Confirm they used net pay before they move to Chapter 7.

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Not understanding what FICA is. Social Security and Medicare withholding surprises almost every first-time earner. Make sure they can explain what FICA is, what rate it’s taken at (7.65%), and why it exists — before moving on.

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Skipping the W-4 walkthrough. The W-4 section is one of the most practically useful parts of the course. A student who doesn’t understand their W-4 will either under-withhold (surprise tax bill) or over-withhold (giving the government a free loan). Walk through it together.

Discussion Questions

1

What is the difference between gross and net pay? Give me a specific example using your projected salary.

2

What is FICA? What does it fund, what rate is it taken at, and does your employer pay any of it?

3

What is a W-4 and when do you fill one out? What happens if you get it wrong?

4

What is a pre-tax deduction? Give me two examples and explain why they reduce your taxable income.

5

What is your projected monthly net take-home pay? Is that the number you’ll use to build your budget?

Done Well
  • Can explain gross vs. net without hesitation
  • Knows what FICA is and can state the rate
  • Understands the W-4 and what filing status means
  • Can explain two pre-tax deductions and why they matter
  • Monthly net pay calculated and ready for Chapter 8
Done Casually
  • Uses gross salary in budget instead of net pay
  • Doesn’t know what FICA stands for or what it funds
  • W-4 section skipped or glossed over
  • Can’t name a pre-tax deduction
  • Net pay number vague or estimated rather than calculated
A Note on This Chapter

Show them a real pay stub if you’re comfortable doing so. Walk through every line together — gross pay, federal withholding, state withholding, Social Security, Medicare, any pre-tax deductions. Seeing a real document from someone they trust is far more powerful than a hypothetical example.

The moment most students realize how much comes out before they see a dollar is a genuinely eye-opening experience. Let them sit with that for a moment before moving on. Then ask: “Now that you know this — does your salary target from Chapter 5 still feel right? Or do you need to adjust it?”

MilestoneMilestone 2 Review

Before moving on to Chapter 7

Milestone 2 is the money fluency check. Your student will spend the rest of their life evaluating job offers, negotiating compensation, and reading paychecks. After this milestone, the numbers covered in Chapters 4–6 should be reflexive — not something they have to look up every time.

Track A Week 11

Do not advance to Chapter 7 until these are true.

Benefits package evaluated with total compensation calculator
401(k) match and HSA explained without notes
Salary research completed from at least two real sources
Floor, target, and stretch numbers set with reasoning
Negotiation role-play completed — not just written
Gross vs. net pay understood and can be explained clearly
FICA understood — rate, purpose, and employer share
Monthly net pay calculated and confirmed for use in Ch. 8

The question to ask yourself at Milestone 2: If my student received a job offer tomorrow, could they evaluate the full compensation package, negotiate the salary professionally, and predict their net take-home pay? If the answer is yes, move to Chapter 7. If not, identify the gap and close it first.