01Setting the Scene
The more real it feels, the more they'll grow from it
Before you begin: Sit across from each other at a table. Stay in character throughout — don't break to give hints or encouragement during the interview. Take notes in this guide while they speak. Save all feedback for the debrief. The interview should last 20–30 minutes.
"Thank you for coming in today. My name is [your name] and I'm the hiring manager for the [job title] position. Please, have a seat."
[Wait for them to sit. Make brief small talk if it helps settle nerves — then:]
"I've had a chance to review your resume and I'm looking forward to learning more about you. Let's go ahead and get started."
02The Interview Questions
Ask all nine — take notes on each response as you go
Tips for staying in character: Keep neutral body language — no approving nods or visible winces. Let silences breathe; don't rescue them if they pause. Ask follow-up questions naturally. Jot brief notes in each space provided.
- "What made you interested in this particular field?"
- "What do you consider your biggest accomplishment so far?"
- "What specifically do you know about what we do here?"
- "What drew you to this position over others you might have seen?"
- "What specifically are you doing to improve in that area?"
"Thank you so much for coming in today. We have a few more candidates to speak with and we'll be in touch within the week. Is the best way to reach you at the number on your resume?"
[Stand. Offer your hand for a handshake. Walk them to the door. Stay in character until the door closes.]
03Scoring Rubric
Rate each area 1–5 · Complete immediately after the interview
1 star = Needs significant work · 3 stars = Solid · 5 stars = Outstanding
04The Debrief
This is where the real learning happens
Before the debrief: Ask your child to complete the Self Evaluation section in their Student Guide first. Then sit down together and compare scorecards. The gap between their self-assessment and yours is the most valuable data in this entire chapter.
Debrief Framework
Start with one specific thing they did well. Then share one area to improve. Then compare scorecards and ask: "Where did your score and mine differ the most — why do you think that is?" End with: "If you could change one thing before a real interview next week, what would it be?"
On the Thank You Note
After the debrief, ask to see the thank you note draft they wrote in their Student Guide. Give feedback before they finalize it. In a real interview, a thank you note sent within 24 hours can be the difference between a callback and silence.